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Even as the TV screen flashed images of raging water, a flood
survivor was able to express humor in the midst of his own
catastrophe. I was impressed. A reporter was interviewing this man
as he stood on his home's second-floor balcony. A swollen river had
submerged his first floor. The reporter made the statement that this
man's town was under water and everyone appeared to have left. And
the man chuckled and jokingly responded, "Yes, my town's population
is now only one." Never during the conversation was there an
apparent sense of doom. Instead, the man went on to share his
confidence that he'd surely recover and rebuild.
As I think about this one story, I continue to be inspired by
that man's upbeat attitude and expectation. And I asked myself, How
can I better practice joy on dark days?
Maybe you've heard the old adage, "Laughter is the best
medicine." I was intrigued to learn recently that there's actually
such a thing as laughter therapy. Apparently, a number of medical
studies are concluding that laughter and humor, applied to
distressing situations, just may be the best remedy.
But is humor merely part of a stoic "grin and bear it approach"?
A "cheer up and smile" to someone who's struggling? I don't think
so. Throughout my life, I've returned again and again to Jesus'
words ". . . and your joy no man taketh from you" (John 16:22). And
I've discovered that nothing can take away honest joy, because joy
is indeed God-given. In fact, I'm convinced that there's real
healing power and value in joy that springs from spiritual
convictions. It's this kind of joy that lifts us up, shifting our
focus from a sense of human helplessness, to the naturalness of
God's care for His children.
I'm learning that being spiritually lighthearted means letting go
of and placing the burdens of life where they belong-on the
shoulders of our Father-Mother God. This truly does lighten all
burdens by pointing us upward and making our days bright with the
realization that there are infinite possibilities. God wants only
good for His children and will lead us to "dry ground," where we can
continue our journey with sure footing.
I'm reminded of these words of Paul in his epistle to the Romans:
"Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good" (12:21).
This tells me that acknowledging the presence of God's love-right
in the face of chaos-will enable me to better feel the power of
God's law of good. It's not about being in denial of the "bad
stuff." But I do believe that opening our thoughts to seeing a
promising horizon enables us to find the spiritual levity that lifts
us up, and brings with it all of God's goodness, including joy. Who
hasn't experienced blessings from life changes that follow
adversity? Much is to be
gained amid struggles, and often it's depressed vision that keeps us
from seeing what can be gained.
I love these words of the Psalmist: ". . . when my heart is
overwhelmed; lead me to the rock that is higher than I" (Ps. 61:2).
Nothing saps one's energy more than the time and focus put into
trying to manage crises. It can be overwhelming if we feel
responsible for manipulating circumstances that are beyond our
control. This ultimately leads to believing that the situation or
problem is beyond God's jurisdiction, too. Mary Baker Eddy wrote in
Science and Health that such an admission "disarms man" and
"prevents him from helping himself" (p. 394).
Maintaining a sense of humor can turn a once formidable looking
issue into something more manageable. Consequently, this view
provides opportunities for greater objectivity and creative insight.
Letting go of burdens, we also help ease them for others. After
watching that one man's lightheartedness when floodwaters filled his
house, I'm putting my frustrations in perspective, and praying more
consistently to acknowledge the power of lasting joy in everything.
Even through the darkest moments, cultivating a lighter heart
(and sometimes even having a good laugh) can go a long way in
helping myself, and others, break free from suffering and
discouragement. The restorative effects of joy just can't be
underestimated.
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