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I’ve read that some scientists believe that human beings have a
curious capacity to take things for granted. It is suggested that
repetition and time are the culprits that dull our sense of wonder.
For example, they say even the most exquisite diamond loses its
luster with familiarity or the sunrise fails to astonish because it
is commonplace.
Certainly there are many things that have become routine and
expected in my life.
Have you ever been in the shower washing your hair, as I have,
when suddenly the water stops coming out because city crews have
shut down the system for repairs? Or how about when storm damage
causes the loss of electricity? Or your car is in the shop and you
have no other mode of transportation? Can you remember what life was
like before the internet and cell phones? Or what about the brother
you can always count on, or your good health or the many freedoms we
enjoy in America? Oh yes, there are many things, experiences and
people I’ve taken for granted!
An email landed in my box this week that inspired more thought on
this subject. It told about a group of students who were asked to
name what they thought were the Seven Wonders of the World. The
wonders which received the most votes included Egypt's Great
Pyramids, Taj Mahal, Grand Canyon, Panama Canal, Empire State
Building, St. Peter's Basilica and China's Great Wall.
But apparently one student had trouble finishing her list,
stating she could not make up her mind because there were so many to
choose from. The teacher encouraged her to share her list aloud with
the other students to see if they could help. She read, “I think the
Seven Wonders of the World are to see, to hear, to touch, to taste,
to feel, to laugh and to love.”
This unexpected list was followed by a poignant reminder —“the
most precious things in life cannot be built by hand or bought by
man.”
This student listed “wonders” that I never thought much about
until one day a couple of years ago when my husband and I gave a
terminally ill friend a jeep ride around our farm.
Riding in the jeep was not a big deal to me, perhaps because it
was “old hat” as some might say. But my friend noticed details I
never had and she relished every moment of her ride. I found myself
being captivated by her adoration and reverence of what she was
seeing and by every breath of fresh country air she gratefully took
in. That was my friend’s last jeep ride. She passed on a few months
later.
But my one jeep ride with her taught me lessons I will never
forget. I discovered colors in the sunset I didn’t know were there.
I learned that each of our cows has its own distinct bellow and some
have really long eye lashes. I noticed that the deeper the hole you
drive over, the harder your laugh will be. I found that looking out
over big Texas pastures reminds you of the broad expanse of God’s
love. And gazing at the horizon when the sun is setting fills you
with a peaceful sense of the infinity of life.
So how do we keep our sense of wonder? How do we maintain our
appreciation of all the everyday miracles that compose our day? And
how do we never overlook the blessings that make up each life
moment?
I’m learning that to even ask such questions is a good beginning.
Pausing to ask these questions also requires pausing to explore for
the answers. And our sincere desire to cherish life is a prayer in
and of itself — and one that will be answered.
As I learned in my jeep ride, the more acutely aware we are of
what makes up and who shares our days, life will be more meaningful
and satisfying. Savoring and mindfully using any of the wonders of
sight, hearing, taste, touch, feeling, laughter and love, will guide
you to even more wonder that God promises for His beloved children.
Start right now — this very moment — and keep yourself in a
constant state of awe, admiration and respect of every ordinary and
extraordinary wonder in your day! You don’t want to miss anything! I
sure hope I don’t!
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