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It had been a really bad day. I found myself caught up in a
plethora of emotions ranging from betrayal, hurt and disappointment
to anger. My dismay and anguish might have been beyond relief if it
had not been for the happy yelp and wagging tail of the little
dachshund that met me as I walked through my door. After spending
a couple of hours holding my puppy in my lap and being lavished with
extravagant licks, I suddenly realized that my world didn’t seem so
terribly wronged. My peace of mind that hours earlier seemed forever
disturbed was returning. I could feel a calmness taking over that
was allowing me to once again think rationally and clearly. A
recent study conducted at Queen’s University, Belfast, Ireland shows
that the dog may truly be man’s best friend. The research found that
people with canine companions tend to have lower blood pressure and
cholesterol levels and fewer medical problems. And, they tend to
recover more quickly from serious illness. One of the report’s
conclusions states that dogs can directly promote our well being by
buffering us from stress. I certainly felt much better after I spent
quality time with my doxey! I always feel an unconditional love
and unquestionable loyalty when I’m in her presence. She appears
unconscious of my faults, failures or weaknesses. Thank goodness!
Her faithfulness is never fleeting — it has no strings attached. Her
love continues day after day and is freely given.
As I sat there cherishing the moments spent with my dachshund, I
thought to myself: “Who else but this little dog loves me
unconditionally?” It was in that moment as I basked in the love of
my dog, that I remembered there was another who loved me like this —
God. It’s really no surprise that God loves you and me constantly,
faithfully and without conditions, since God is Love. There’s a
parable which Jesus shares that for me epitomizes God as Love while
teaching lessons about what it means to love and be loved.
I suspect many of you will know this story as the parable of the
prodigal son. (Luke 15:11-32) But there was another son in that
story I don’t always remember. The parable begins in fact, “There
was once a man who had two sons.”
The younger of the two sons asked his dad to give him his
inheritance early because he wanted to leave home to go out on his
own. But this younger son didn’t make wise decisions and eventually
wasted all of his money. It wasn’t until he was starving and
slopping pigs for his living, that he decided to go home and ask his
dad if he would hire him, since he no longer felt worthy of being
treated as a son. At least his dad fed his hired servants three
meals a day! But when the dad saw this young son whom he had given
up for dead, he felt only love for his child. This dad saw no
faults, failures or weaknesses in his son. He saw only a much
beloved son whom he wanted to embrace. All the years since the
younger son left, the older son had remained ever faithful and
diligent in service to his dad. Now this older son felt
unappreciated by his dad as he watched him celebrating his brother’s
return after he had wasted everything their dad had given to him.
But again, this patient and compassionate dad reminded this older
son of his appreciation for his faithfulness and said, “Everything
that is mine is yours.” But he also told his older son that it was
right to celebrate the safe return of his younger brother.
Because that is what Love does — Love loves.
As I thought about God’s love for me, I knew He was giving no
concern to the faults, failures and weaknesses that were mine — or
those of others. God was too busy loving me and everyone to see
anything less than His beloved children.
And I thought, “Perhaps I need to do the same. Maybe I could
forgive and forget what I consider someone else’s fault and failure
— and I can do this because I love them.” I also realized that I
could forgive and forget what I was considering my fault and failure
in the situation because I needed to love myself in the way that God
loves me.
Interestingly enough, as I sat there feeling quite loved by my
dog and very loved by God, it was not long before I could feel
nothing else but love. And what was a very bad day was transformed
into a doggone good one! |