My husband and I finally did it. We finally went somewhere
other than Disney World or the beach. All through our daughter's
growing-up years, other than the occasional venturing elsewhere,
we've spent family vacations going to the places our daughter
and we loved most.
Routines are easy to fall into. We can be trapped by them. Many
people have a tendency to do the same things every day, day in
and day out. We get up, go to work, come home, fix dinner, eat,
do chores, watch television, and so forth. By the end of the
day, we're so tired that we go to bed, only to begin our routine
again the next day. Yet we feel comfortable traveling within our
own little comfort zone, surrounding ourselves with what is
familiar.
I hadn't realized that our vacations had become routine — like
the rest of our life. That is, until now. I'm writing this
column while my husband is out fly-fishing with a friend who
recently moved to Oregon. Fly-fishing is something he has never
experienced before. Earlier today, I went on an hour-and-a-half
hike by myself, something I've never done — until this trip.
In fact, our entire vacation has been filled with experiences
and activities we've never done before or imagined doing. We've
crossed mountains, traversed canyons and hiked trails. We've
seen the deepest lake, crossed the highest bridge, visited the
largest sea cave, seen the most photographed lighthouse, the
tallest waterfall, the oldest and biggest trees, and we've
traveled the windiest roads, rockiest coastline and the highest
and most narrow road of our lives to date.
Phrases like "branch out" and "stretch yourself" suddenly have
fresh meaning. Lyrics written by Tim Rice to Elton John's famous
song "Circle of Life" also have new meaning for me: "There's
more to see than can ever be seen, more to do than can ever be
done, more to find than can ever be found." Doing things I never
thought I could or would has me hungry to experience more.
There's a valuable lesson to be learned when hiking the longest
trail you've ever hiked. I finally understand that it truly
isn't as much about the destination as it is the journey.
Although the destination may be worthy and of value, the journey
is even more incredible and fulfilling in and of itself. Each
moment walking the trail included inspiring vistas and
discoveries I would not have wanted to miss, even if I had never
reached the trail's end.
Comfort zones are self-created and imposed. In designing these
comfortable and reliable pathways, we tend to limit our
possibility and potential for new experiences.
Stretching is powerful, healing and transforming. The Lord told
Moses to "stretch out thy hand over the sea" and the waters
parted (Exodus 14:16). Jesus told the man with the withered hand
to "stretch forth thine hand," and his hand was restored whole
as his other (Matthew 12:13). This vacation has stretched my
view of myself from a woman of limited abilities to a woman of
God's creating with infinite abilities and potential.
Being willing to challenge myself to move out of my familiar
beliefs and to fearlessly approach new opportunities has
resulted in a broadened concept for the rest of my life. My
horizon has indeed been expanded, the place of my tent enlarged
(Isaiah 54:2). I welcome more new possibilities, discoveries and
adventures into my life journey. Yes, I have put on a fresh lens
for viewing what I can and could do that is untouched, undimmed
and unimpressed by any beliefs and opinions about age.
Are you trying to find a way out of a mundane routine? Do you
feel stuck in a rut and can't figure out what is holding you
back?
Branch out and stretch yourself by doing something — anything —
you wouldn't ordinarily do. I guarantee you will be glad you did
and will not be disappointed. It's just that simple! Every time
you stretch, you enlarge your comfort zone to include more of
the great big world out there waiting to be explored, and you
let go of old, limiting beliefs that have been holding you back
from seeing your infinite potential.